https://marco.org/2007/06/03/you-kill-yourself-and-you-make-a-big-old-sacrifice
You kill yourself and you make a big old sacrifice and try to get your revenge. All you’re gonna end up with is a paragraph in a newspaper. … It does nothing … nothing changes. The world goes on and you’re gone. The best revenge is to live on and prove yourself.
— Eddie Vetter of Pearl Jam on his song, Jeremy, about a kid who shot himself in his high school English class